Girls only - i need ur help to this situation?

This is going to seem like horrible advice, but you just have to confront her yourself. This girl appears to be confused about her own life and is taking you along for the ride. Its understandable that you don't want to leave her when she's in a bad situation, especially if you like her, but it's also unfair to yourself to be caught up in all of her issues and never receiving a clear cut answer of whether she wants to be with you or not. I say just ask her straight out if she's completely moved on and ready to take your relationship seriously. If she gives you shaky answers or excuses, then it's no good.Though it seems harsh, if the girl isn't moving forward, you have to move on. I hope this helps you, even in the littlest bit.